“Arousal (that you want to be around) is sexy!” Queen says. Pre-cum is a turn-on, in short, because it does signal arousal. And the answer to the question “do women like cum?” is a resounding yes. So he turned to the good women of Reddit to see what they thought. As you can tell by the post, this guy is bugging out pretty hard.Ĭlearly, this is a sore subject for him. You know, just one of those things the opposite sex will literally never care about, but we, for some reason, build up way too high in our heads. Or at least this one guy does, enough to post about it on Reddit. They may even find themselves asking “do girls like cum?” in all of its stages in this case, pre. In the same way that some girls worry that their nipples are weird or that they discharge “too much,” guys can be insecure about their bodies during sex, too. I'm particularly interested in how gross women on here would find that, or if you wouldn't see it as a big deal. I haven't had many partners as it is, but this really puts me off wanting to go far enough with anyone for them to notice. I'm sure people are going to say it's fine and not to worry, but this has totally destroyed my confidence over the years (I'm 33). If myself and whoever are naked then it'll just be embarrassingly dribbling on them/the bed/whatever. Obviously, the longer anything continues, the more gets produced. It can easily show as a wet spot on my trousers/jeans within minutes.

It's hard to give an idea of exactly how much there is. This is perfectly 'normal' for me but it makes me so self-conscious. Just yesterday I was kissing someone (first time in a while, go me!) and after those 2 or 3 minutes my boxers were saturated and it was running down my leg. But then I saw this post about pre-cum on Reddit: Is my pre-cum issue as big a deal as I think it is? As soon as I even start kissing, my pre-cum production goes haywire. “It signals arousal - that the person is on the way to getting turned on enough to ejaculate,” Queen says, though she also notes that while might not happen for a number of reasons, pre-cum usually does appear when someone is turned on.īut it wasn't until extremely recently (like, give or take 30 minutes ago) that I realized pre-cum was something that could even be potentially embarrassing. Carol Queen, pre-cum, also known as pre-ejaculate, “is a fairly thin, slippery, clear fluid that seeps out of a penis prior to ejaculation.” Some people make an amount you can notice, she says, and other people make less. According to author and Good Vibrations Staff Sexologist Dr. I'm not a man, so it's not an issue I come across regularly.

I have to be honest with you: I really have not invested much time into thinking about pre-cum.

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